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In the Forum: Playback Listening
In the Thread: How would you handle it?
Post Subject: Will Power vs. Want PowerPosted by Paul S on: 5/24/2013
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Romy, from the anicdotes peppering this forum, it sounds like you have "done your homework" prior to choosing someone to share your life with, and you have done this at a time when you, at least, have already acquired some life experience. No doubt you have a pretty good handle on the amount of "information" you can apply to Amy without getting equal and opposite reactions. In my own case, my wife still shows no interest in hi-fi after 45 years. When I mention things hi-fi she never "rises to the bait", and I do not use a net, nor traps, either. I suppose that it might be much easier if we shared music in common, but even if we did I would not put a strain on what we have to try to get more. If you plan to be together with Amy a long time, then you can at least move slowly, staying alert for and not over-reacting to actual signs of interest on her part.
Best regards,
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